What’s
at stake isn’t simply doing the work. What really matters is what the work says
to a person. How it is going to transform their life one way or another?
Someone could easily make a bad decision based on a product that is not
delivered correctly.
If
you are an accountant and you simply fill out a customer’s paperwork before
flinging it at them, you are depriving them of the transformation they are
ultimately seeking from you. Most accountants don’t get this, and while that’s
a good thing for those accountants who do, it’s very unfortunate for the customer
sitting across from an accountant who just doesn’t care or understand.
I
have a buddy who was saddled with an accountant who surprised him by letting
him know that, oops, he owed $13,000 more than projected. As my buddy sat there
shell-shocked, the accountant looked at him with a straight face and asked,
“How are you going to pay this?”
When
my buddy could not come up with an immediate answer, the accountant told him to
give him a call when he figured it out and advised him to enjoy the rest of his
day. That accountant belongs in accountant jail.
It’s
essential to understand, whatever your profession, the services you provide
make a difference in people’s lives. If an individual knows that you understand
this, they will feel protected through the interactions they have with you and
can be confident they are exactly where they should be. If you care, no one can
compete with you.
The
important question here is: When you talk to customers, are you in fact talking
to a client, or are you talking to an aspirant? Do you understand what this
person is aspiring to be or do? In all of your dealings with aspirants,
remember that what you say to them really matters. Take your words as seriously
as they do. Think before you speak. Make it a transformative experience for
them. Never think about the amount of trouble, hassle or time it will take to
accommodate your aspirant. Embrace it. Think about what you can do to make them
feel safer, confident, optimistic, and that progress is being made to meet
whatever the challenge. This is the kind of stuff they don’t teach in
accounting school, or engineering school, or construction school, or any other
schools.
A
good way to start empathizing with the aspirants around you, is by making
yourself your first aspirant. Take a look within, at your own life, and examine
the goals you currently have on the table. Once you’ve identified and
prioritized those goals, think about the motivation behind them. Maybe one of
your current goals is to become a better salsa dancer. A worthy, understandable
goal.
Ask
yourself: Why is this my goal?
What
are you aspiring toward by wanting to achieve this goal? You’re a very hard
worker. You work so hard, lately you feel as if your life has become all work
and no play. Having a balance in life is vital. You feel that learning to
become an amazing salsa dancer will provide a great social outlet to create the
balance you’re seeking in life. Rather than crunching numbers, eating ice cream
alone and watching To Catch A Predator on MSNBC on Friday nights, you think it
would be better for your psyche, to hit the dance floor, get some exercise,
make new friends—maybe make new, more than friends—and in general, be happier.
It’s clear the goal is to salsa dance because the motivation is to improve your
social life, your health, both physical and mental, and to provide variety in
your day-to-day life. You deserve all of these things.
And
so do your aspirants. Think of your own personal goals when working with
aspirants and remember, their goals mean just as much to them as yours do to
you. Don’t ever just fill out the paper work!
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